JJsqueeze
Dad, Husband....legend
None specifically coachBob, just a general comment that there are some dicey areas and dicey parents out there. Add to the fact that some of the parks have transients milling about and you get a situation where it is not exactly Disneyland and kids need to be watched closely as they do in all situations.
Also, statistically, extended family members, family friends, coaches, teachers and others in a position of authority or someone familiar are FAR more likely to pose a danger to a kid than a stranger or say the brother of a teammate. Also sexual assault is under reported so my fear is mostly of what I don't know about the people my kids come into contact with at school etc. more than of strangers or a teammates brother. With the brother of the teammate I simply point him out and tell my kids he is a convicted rapist and to not talk or go near him and I watch him closely.
Sad to say, but if you just talk statistics then all of our daughters have been on at least one team, or in a girl scout troop etc where the father of a kid was a rapist or child molester but has simply not been caught so I am leery of any situation where one of my girls is alone for a minute with a male over the age of 12.
Call me paranoid, but I'd rather be safe than sorry and when I can see a threat I am less concerned than when I can't because I have control of the situation. So I would be less concerned about my girls being at a game in this situation then I am say when they have a sleepover at a friend's house.
Also, statistically, extended family members, family friends, coaches, teachers and others in a position of authority or someone familiar are FAR more likely to pose a danger to a kid than a stranger or say the brother of a teammate. Also sexual assault is under reported so my fear is mostly of what I don't know about the people my kids come into contact with at school etc. more than of strangers or a teammates brother. With the brother of the teammate I simply point him out and tell my kids he is a convicted rapist and to not talk or go near him and I watch him closely.
Sad to say, but if you just talk statistics then all of our daughters have been on at least one team, or in a girl scout troop etc where the father of a kid was a rapist or child molester but has simply not been caught so I am leery of any situation where one of my girls is alone for a minute with a male over the age of 12.
Call me paranoid, but I'd rather be safe than sorry and when I can see a threat I am less concerned than when I can't because I have control of the situation. So I would be less concerned about my girls being at a game in this situation then I am say when they have a sleepover at a friend's house.