I was just hit with this yesterday and I want some feedback.
One of my best players has a brother in jail for rape. Players mom last night was telling me in casual conversation that he is getting out soon. She started describing him and his tattoos and said "oh you will see them at the games". Immediately my antenna went up but I didn't say anything. I know this will be a sticky situation but the overall well being and health of my players come first. (Also have several little brothers and sisters running around). I think, I even though I may not like it, it may be alright for him to go to the local softball complex and watch. There are probably several there that no one knows about. We travel some though, and I know I don't want him with us for hotel stays. I know that the conversation to keep him away will blow up and I may lose a player but I think I have to do it. Anyone ran into this before? What are your thoughts and what would you think if you had a dd on the team?
One of my best players has a brother in jail for rape. Players mom last night was telling me in casual conversation that he is getting out soon. She started describing him and his tattoos and said "oh you will see them at the games". Immediately my antenna went up but I didn't say anything. I know this will be a sticky situation but the overall well being and health of my players come first. (Also have several little brothers and sisters running around). I think, I even though I may not like it, it may be alright for him to go to the local softball complex and watch. There are probably several there that no one knows about. We travel some though, and I know I don't want him with us for hotel stays. I know that the conversation to keep him away will blow up and I may lose a player but I think I have to do it. Anyone ran into this before? What are your thoughts and what would you think if you had a dd on the team?