I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is that if your DD really wants to play college softball, there is going to be a school somewhere that wants her. The bad news is that as a 2017 who has to move up to 18U this season your DD is a little behind on the process if she wants to play at one of the major SEC schools you mentioned.
Getting onto a marquee team that gets invited to the major showcases would be a step in the right direction, and you should focus on the showcases in the Southeast if that is really where she wants to play. Does she have a skills video? What other recruiting activities have you performed? You and your DD need to take ownership of her recruitment and start and aggressively emailing/mailing information to the college coaches of the schools she is interested in attending. You also need to attend as many of their winter camps as time and money will allow. My suggestion is to come up with a Top-10. 2-3 "dream schools", 5 "realistic choices", and 2-3 "fallback" plans.
Getting onto a marquee team that gets invited to the major showcases would be a step in the right direction, and you should focus on the showcases in the Southeast if that is really where she wants to play. Does she have a skills video? What other recruiting activities have you performed? You and your DD need to take ownership of her recruitment and start and aggressively emailing/mailing information to the college coaches of the schools she is interested in attending. You also need to attend as many of their winter camps as time and money will allow. My suggestion is to come up with a Top-10. 2-3 "dream schools", 5 "realistic choices", and 2-3 "fallback" plans.