I do have a question for the coaches out there though. What is your opinion about calling for high and tight fastballs on known bunters? It is my normal strategy but it makes me nervous sometimes because I don't know how well the kids can get out of the way if one gets a little loose.
I don't even need to call it anymore. If the girl turns to bunt my DD is going to throw high and inside no matter what the pitch call was and her catcher knows it.
Again, you are not throwing high and inside to intentionally hit anyone - you are throwing it as an appropriate reaction to a someone bunting. If they have terrible bunting technique or it isn't perfect and it happens to hit the batter, then so be it.