I have been on both sides of the fence as well. I see it as a no/win situation all the way around. The organizations/coaches are doing their best in order to ensure that they have a solid roster for the coming season. The players/families are doing their best to find the best fit for the coming season. Unfortunately, the two goals are not always aligned. And participants on either side are not always honest with their intentions. I have witnessed organizations do things that I would never do. And I have seen players/families do things that I would never do. I am glad that my family no longer needs to deal with that process, and wish the rest of you the best of luck.