Huskerdu
With Purpose and Urgency
- Sep 4, 2011
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I have three issues I need some advice on.
I am the coach of a 14u TB team that has been playing for about 5 years, half my girls came from a disbanded team in our assn and the other half I've had since rec ball, and one player I picked up.
1. That one player has been on 3 teams now in her second year of TB and her parents have created a puss pocket of "my daughter sat out one game" with another parent who has joined in and is telling everyone her daughter is pissed (for sitting out one game), the player wishes her parents would shut up. I love those kids but I am ready to cut both families tbh.
2. I have a player who is ALWAYS late, going to the wrong fields, and when I ask who's missing my girls tell me, (she) is always late. This past weekend my phone rang on the speaker (I had it in our team music dock boom box) and the girls started laughing, that's probably (player) calling saying they are at the wrong field. Sure enough, she showed up 10 minutes before game time and she told her dad that she was benched because she was late. I get a text (breaking my 24hr rule) from the dad pissed I would bench her because she can't drive herself to the game and that he didn't get the email, blah blah blah. What do I tell him when he calls me tomorrow?
3. I have worked and worked and given my time and blood and sweat and tears for these kids, I improved my coaching staff, I started coaching HS ball to improve my skills as a coach, I have spent an insane amount of money for these kids yet, why do some parents still want to suck my blood? I don't get it...and I've been coaching and playing for a long long time.
I am the coach of a 14u TB team that has been playing for about 5 years, half my girls came from a disbanded team in our assn and the other half I've had since rec ball, and one player I picked up.
1. That one player has been on 3 teams now in her second year of TB and her parents have created a puss pocket of "my daughter sat out one game" with another parent who has joined in and is telling everyone her daughter is pissed (for sitting out one game), the player wishes her parents would shut up. I love those kids but I am ready to cut both families tbh.
2. I have a player who is ALWAYS late, going to the wrong fields, and when I ask who's missing my girls tell me, (she) is always late. This past weekend my phone rang on the speaker (I had it in our team music dock boom box) and the girls started laughing, that's probably (player) calling saying they are at the wrong field. Sure enough, she showed up 10 minutes before game time and she told her dad that she was benched because she was late. I get a text (breaking my 24hr rule) from the dad pissed I would bench her because she can't drive herself to the game and that he didn't get the email, blah blah blah. What do I tell him when he calls me tomorrow?
3. I have worked and worked and given my time and blood and sweat and tears for these kids, I improved my coaching staff, I started coaching HS ball to improve my skills as a coach, I have spent an insane amount of money for these kids yet, why do some parents still want to suck my blood? I don't get it...and I've been coaching and playing for a long long time.