Glad to see this topic discussed. I am in a situation with a couple of my 12u TB players right now. Our first TB tournament is this weekend , I had one girl miss practice on Tuesday to go to a rec ball game and I had another miss yesterday for a rec ball game. Both sets of parents were told how important it was for their daughter to be at practice for TB , but both chose to go to rec ball and skip our practice. I am thinking about sitting both for the tourney. What do you guys think? LMK
BTW.. Rec ball is really terrible around here and we have told our TB players that we "prefer" that they dont play rec at all.
If Rec ball is really terrible, then your TB players are probably the best on the team. I don't think you can get too upset at them for not wanting to let their Rec team down by missing a game for TB practice. Rec ball should be over soon. If you don't want your players playing Rec, tell them they "can't", not that you "prefer" they didn't.