I have also noticed several coach bashing threads lately and I understand why many of you coaches might take offense or naturally take the side of the coach being bashed. But let me throw this out there. It may be that a lot of parents read many of the great coaches on this board and they expect their coaches to be on the same level. However, what they encounter just doesn't measure up to what they read here. In fact, from what i have observed I would say the vast majority of coaching out there is very bad. You know how I know the coaching is bad? Because you all have taught me what bad coaching is!!!
You are the ones telling us parents that bug squishing and hello elbow is wrong. You all tell us that 12 kids standing around while one kid flails away during "batting practice" is no good. You all said that its wrong for a coach to scream at an 11 year old for not throwing off her hockey-style catchers mask quick enough for a play at the plate. I have seen these things and more in the past week alone! It is much more common than you think.
Most of you are great coaches and you probably coach with or against a bunch of other great coaches. So it's possible you are shielded from a lot of the nonsense. But I believe you are a very small minority in the coaching universe.
I found this site a few years ago looking for advice to help in coaching my daughters rec team. I quickly realized how little I knew! I learned enough here to be able to do an adequate job but a year ago I figured I was at my ceiling and it was best for her development to find her a more competitive team with good coaching. I just assumed that the things discussed on here daily that most here would consider "best practices" would be common knowledge among experienced coaches. But they just aren't. I've been watching a lot of games around here and talking to a lot of people trying to find a good fit but it's tough. It's been a frustrating year but I'm still hopeful we'll find the right fit.
Sorry for the long winded post, I know this sounds like just another parent bashing a coach rant. But it's mostly a result of reading many of you all and thinking, "Man, I wish that person could be my daughter's coach!"
You are the ones telling us parents that bug squishing and hello elbow is wrong. You all tell us that 12 kids standing around while one kid flails away during "batting practice" is no good. You all said that its wrong for a coach to scream at an 11 year old for not throwing off her hockey-style catchers mask quick enough for a play at the plate. I have seen these things and more in the past week alone! It is much more common than you think.
Most of you are great coaches and you probably coach with or against a bunch of other great coaches. So it's possible you are shielded from a lot of the nonsense. But I believe you are a very small minority in the coaching universe.
I found this site a few years ago looking for advice to help in coaching my daughters rec team. I quickly realized how little I knew! I learned enough here to be able to do an adequate job but a year ago I figured I was at my ceiling and it was best for her development to find her a more competitive team with good coaching. I just assumed that the things discussed on here daily that most here would consider "best practices" would be common knowledge among experienced coaches. But they just aren't. I've been watching a lot of games around here and talking to a lot of people trying to find a good fit but it's tough. It's been a frustrating year but I'm still hopeful we'll find the right fit.
Sorry for the long winded post, I know this sounds like just another parent bashing a coach rant. But it's mostly a result of reading many of you all and thinking, "Man, I wish that person could be my daughter's coach!"
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