The last tryout DD attended told us straight up there would be no offers made that night.
But by 8am the following morning I received a call. The coach did want a decision by that evening...however, I told him we needed until the following evening as DD wanted to attend the tryouts for her old team just to be sure. She did in fact make the move.
I will agree with the above...it is just right to let people know. Do not drop off the face of the earth! We have never been on the receiving (or non receiving) end of that but we know plenty of families who have. The coach DD used to play for would email everyone who didn't make the team in a group email. Not terrible on the surface - but when you let your AC and his daughter go in that same email that is pretty bad.
But by 8am the following morning I received a call. The coach did want a decision by that evening...however, I told him we needed until the following evening as DD wanted to attend the tryouts for her old team just to be sure. She did in fact make the move.
I will agree with the above...it is just right to let people know. Do not drop off the face of the earth! We have never been on the receiving (or non receiving) end of that but we know plenty of families who have. The coach DD used to play for would email everyone who didn't make the team in a group email. Not terrible on the surface - but when you let your AC and his daughter go in that same email that is pretty bad.