Is this something that the coaches are unaware of or are turning a blind eye to?
I know most university teams have a zero tolerance for drugs and alcohol. I think I can count about 3 on my DD's team during her 4yrs that were kicked off the team for this. Mostly alcohol. Shame too, because most of them had to quit school as they lost their scholarship as well.
I always talk to my high schoolers about this, getting them to understand the seriousness of this when they are about to go off to college.
What would you do if you know there is a player on your dd's team the is regularly smoking pot and drinking? I know this because I monitor my child's social media closely. I feel like the coach should be made aware of the situation. Dont really feel like i can tell the parents and not sure they would even care.