Excellent reply. I wasn't trying to imply that I never had boys cry, I have. Been coaching awhile and I have had those sensitive kids as well. I try to adapt to each kids personality and have very good success over the years.
The girls seem to be more sensitive to the smaller things, as opposed to the big things. One in particular will smile and laugh when she makes a mistake, boots a play, gets thrown out.....etc. All I say is "I'm not sure what you find funny about...."insert item here"
I am reassuring them of their positives and pointing out their deficiencies as a player. I do it individually, and in a group setting so that they know how much I am impressed with their improvements over the last few practices. Lots of reassuring information and compliments.
The Manager and previous coaching was, and is very lax when it comes to discipline and accountability.
I was brought in as the "tough" but loving coach that will enforce rules and run drills drills drills.......come gameday I am on the bucket cheering from the dugout.
The girls seem to be more sensitive to the smaller things, as opposed to the big things. One in particular will smile and laugh when she makes a mistake, boots a play, gets thrown out.....etc. All I say is "I'm not sure what you find funny about...."insert item here"
I am reassuring them of their positives and pointing out their deficiencies as a player. I do it individually, and in a group setting so that they know how much I am impressed with their improvements over the last few practices. Lots of reassuring information and compliments.
The Manager and previous coaching was, and is very lax when it comes to discipline and accountability.
I was brought in as the "tough" but loving coach that will enforce rules and run drills drills drills.......come gameday I am on the bucket cheering from the dugout.