The parents have their choice. And each has their own methods of making that choice. Personally a lot of the things you talk about make sense to me. Always has. Not all of it. But some of it. The problem is you spend too much time explaining why someone else is wrong instead of why you are right. To me that is a huge turnoff. But maybe that's just me. I still appreciate your contributions. Just wish you could focus on a topic without peddling your agenda.
Sorry but my agenda is the truth of the high level swing (Not false claims).. Thankfully there are allot more folks seeing my agenda which is what matters on these boards..