One thing that I am surprised about is that no one has mentioned to avoid private tryouts if at all possible. Remember, the tryout for your DD is a two way street. As a coach, I not only look at the players but make a point of talking to the parents as well. I don't need crazy parents on my TB team. By the same token, this gives the parents an opportunity to find out something about me, my coaching philosophy, playing time expectations and other various questions they might like to ask. I also encourage them to talk to other parents of players on my team from last year. This is very difficult to do if you have a private tryout. It's also much easier for an unethical coach to sell a bill of goods to you if no one else is around to contradict him/her.
As for tryouts for my players, I look for the basics. Attitude, athleticism, skills at batting/fielding, knowledge of their chosen positions and knowledge of game situations are what I look for in a player; pretty much in that order. As for parents, I look at only two things; temperament and attitude. If I feel that the parents will be a problem during the upcoming season, their DD will not make the team no matter how good she is. That may sound cruel but there is no quicker way to take a good or even a great team down and make it miserable for everybody involved than crazy parents that constantly complain about every little thing that they feel slighted on from DD's playing time to coaching philosophy to game strategy etc. etc. etc.
As for tryouts for my players, I look for the basics. Attitude, athleticism, skills at batting/fielding, knowledge of their chosen positions and knowledge of game situations are what I look for in a player; pretty much in that order. As for parents, I look at only two things; temperament and attitude. If I feel that the parents will be a problem during the upcoming season, their DD will not make the team no matter how good she is. That may sound cruel but there is no quicker way to take a good or even a great team down and make it miserable for everybody involved than crazy parents that constantly complain about every little thing that they feel slighted on from DD's playing time to coaching philosophy to game strategy etc. etc. etc.