I am at the end of the rope with these coaches bullying my kid. I just don't understand. We joined this travel team just a few months ago, most all the other kids have been on this team for at least a few years. The coaches have been with team previously as assistants for about a year and then became the managers/coach after they forced out the previous guy.
I would say fielding and throwing she is in the upper middle, batting I would put her in the bottom third, but could be higher if they gave her more chances up to bat, but that isn't really a big concern of mine. Her primary position is the backup catcher where she is very good.
She also plays on her HS JV team. The problem has been during practices mostly, these two coaches constantly berate her about everything, if she makes a bad throw or misses a catch, they always ride her. If she makes a good play they don't really say much, they might say something like "better". But if one of the other players misses a catch or makes a bad throw which happens just as frequently or even more frequently from some of the players, they don't say anything to them. If one of the other players makes an equally good catch or throw the coaches get very excited for them. Funny thing about yesterday's practice was during fielding drills where the coach hits the ball to positions and they throw to first usually, she made a few good plays from 3rd, the coach then stopped hitting the ball to 3rd for some reason. Eventually another player (who is the best fielder and hitter on the team) waiting behind her became a little agitated because they were just standing around while the coaches ignored her.
So I just don't understand. She is a quiet kid and never talks back to anyone or cops an attitude with any of the players. During yesterday's practice, she left in tears after all the berating she received from them. Since we joined this team her confidence has really really gone down. We don't really want to quit the team because I don't think we can join another team this late in the season. Also the softball community is a very small world, everyone knows someone from every other team. I am kind of afraid to say something to them because I don't think it will do any good and it will probably just result in them not playing her at all, but I do know things can't continue like this. I think they would like to talk to all the players the way they talk to mine, but they don't. I don't think I would have as much of a problem with the berating if the coaches distributed out the berating equally among all the players.
Any advice would be appreciated.
I would say fielding and throwing she is in the upper middle, batting I would put her in the bottom third, but could be higher if they gave her more chances up to bat, but that isn't really a big concern of mine. Her primary position is the backup catcher where she is very good.
She also plays on her HS JV team. The problem has been during practices mostly, these two coaches constantly berate her about everything, if she makes a bad throw or misses a catch, they always ride her. If she makes a good play they don't really say much, they might say something like "better". But if one of the other players misses a catch or makes a bad throw which happens just as frequently or even more frequently from some of the players, they don't say anything to them. If one of the other players makes an equally good catch or throw the coaches get very excited for them. Funny thing about yesterday's practice was during fielding drills where the coach hits the ball to positions and they throw to first usually, she made a few good plays from 3rd, the coach then stopped hitting the ball to 3rd for some reason. Eventually another player (who is the best fielder and hitter on the team) waiting behind her became a little agitated because they were just standing around while the coaches ignored her.
So I just don't understand. She is a quiet kid and never talks back to anyone or cops an attitude with any of the players. During yesterday's practice, she left in tears after all the berating she received from them. Since we joined this team her confidence has really really gone down. We don't really want to quit the team because I don't think we can join another team this late in the season. Also the softball community is a very small world, everyone knows someone from every other team. I am kind of afraid to say something to them because I don't think it will do any good and it will probably just result in them not playing her at all, but I do know things can't continue like this. I think they would like to talk to all the players the way they talk to mine, but they don't. I don't think I would have as much of a problem with the berating if the coaches distributed out the berating equally among all the players.
Any advice would be appreciated.