I think you should move to another team. You went to an organization for 10 workouts. They put you on the lower "B" team. Your DD is the back up catcher and a bottom 3rd hitter. The coaches are singling out your DD for her poor play at practice. I know it is frustrating when your DD is upset. My normal advice would be to stick it out and look around next year. In your case, I believe your DD may end up leaving softball for good. I would go to the next tournament, find the teams that are struggling to win a game. They always need new players. See if your DD can guest with them for a tournament. I would be willing to bet she gets more AB's and the practices are less stressful to her. Help her find the passion for the game again.