Hello Folks,
I love being a Father and helping my daughters grow, achieve their sports related goals, and have fun playing the game. But I would be lying if I didn't admit to getting a bit stressed out with the never ending requests for this or that. Dad,"I need to get a physical, I need a ride to practice, I need a ride from practice, i want to try out for this team/that team, I need a new glove/new bat, did you sign me up for the clinic, I need someone to catch for me, play catch with me, my friend needs a ride".... I could go on and on and on.
Now understand that my wife has somehow abandoned all sports related activities, resists requests, and has left me as the designated Softball Parent. If it were left up to her, they likely wouldn't be playing and definitely not as well as they are. So the burden lies on me to assist my DD's in their efforts.
I'm starting to lose patience and get easily aggravated. For example, I walked in the house today from work, put on my headphones and just rocked out to some good music as I walked around my family. This was my way of relaxing, avoiding, or escaping from the next request, sibling argument, etc.
I know that I'm not the only one like this. Share your tips, suggestions, advice, etc.
I love being a Father and helping my daughters grow, achieve their sports related goals, and have fun playing the game. But I would be lying if I didn't admit to getting a bit stressed out with the never ending requests for this or that. Dad,"I need to get a physical, I need a ride to practice, I need a ride from practice, i want to try out for this team/that team, I need a new glove/new bat, did you sign me up for the clinic, I need someone to catch for me, play catch with me, my friend needs a ride".... I could go on and on and on.
Now understand that my wife has somehow abandoned all sports related activities, resists requests, and has left me as the designated Softball Parent. If it were left up to her, they likely wouldn't be playing and definitely not as well as they are. So the burden lies on me to assist my DD's in their efforts.
I'm starting to lose patience and get easily aggravated. For example, I walked in the house today from work, put on my headphones and just rocked out to some good music as I walked around my family. This was my way of relaxing, avoiding, or escaping from the next request, sibling argument, etc.
I know that I'm not the only one like this. Share your tips, suggestions, advice, etc.