The team needs to understand that Pitchers live in a different world than the other position players. Pitchers need to continually have lessons and requires a high level dedication to their craft. Without their pitcher, the team won't be winning any games. I'd tell that other kid to pound sand. I would also ask if the MS coach can give her pitching lessons during practice. Yeah! I didn't think so. Sounds like a meeting is required to form some sort of compromise.