It’s not really an all or nothing proposition.
What I’m saying is when the count is 0-2, do we really need to throw three “waste pitches” fourteen inches off the plate that no one will swing at?
That is one of my frustrations with pitch calling. A lot of girls at 12u and under (I have no experience with older ages) don't like to swing the bat as it is. They are waiting until the last minute to decide (my kid is a prime example), and those "waste pitches" are never ever getting a swing. Coaches should be taking advantage of the fact that they want to wait to swing, not playing into it.