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May 8, 2012
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The replies so far are great...I like hearing peoples stories on this and how they deal with it, specifically from an athletics point of view. I want to start off by saying that my DD has ADD and not ADHD. Though they are usually lumped together, she doesn't display any of the hyper-activity or uncontrolable urges sometimes displayed in ADHD.
From a diagnosis stand point, I think its important to fully understand what the condition is...it IS a brain issue, NOT a behavior issue. That said, I do believe that any diagnosis should be done with a neurologist and not a psychiatrist. We went to a neurologist for our diagnosis and have experienced great results right from the start, where others I have met mostly all went to psychiatrists and have their ups and downs with their medications. We were put on a 5mg generic Adderall, which is the lowest does you can get, and it straightened us out. These are our results only and I'm fully aware that everyone will have different experiences. My point is, we were given the lowest dose first, then the plan was to work up from there. Not just throw say 15mg and see how it shakes out. We stayed with the 5mg for 2 years and all was well. Last year we had to increase our dose to 10mg..I don't believe there was any immunity built up, but rather our growth over a 2yr period that required the increase

redhot- to answer you previous question about other meds we take with our Rx...nothing. At least for us, there seems to be no unwanted side effects that would require another Rx.

Lozza- i do value my Dr.'s opinion. My issue was simply what he calls competitive softball, and what I call competitive softball may be two totally different animals. I've seen plenty of people go to watch a travel softball tourney for the first time and have been in almost total shock at what they see on the field. They walk in thinking they are basically going to watch a LL rec game, then they see the level of play and are quite suprised at the level of play. As far as me knowing more than the Dr., I don't claim that, but I do believe I shouldn't take everything he says as golden either. People seem to forget that even the guy/girl who graduates last in their class still get to hang a certification on their wall. I felt this forum was the best place to get feedback on girls with ADD who play competitive softball. I had what i consider to be a very specific question, I felt this was the best place to hear results.

My general observations are that she seems to have faster reaction times without the meds, better focus/descision making skills but slower reaction times while on. Perhaps I'm seeing what I want to see...perhaps she IS falling in line with most of the other talent pool, and not a travel level player anymore...It is what it is I guess, but I did want to ask others what their experiences are. What I'm getting from most of this is that her Dr. in the end may be correct..the meds don't have any effect. I understand how they work..they slow everything down so the patient can absorb what they see. It seemed like a totally logical question to me
 
Jun 14, 2011
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Grounded- have you thought about training tactics designed to help her reaction time? For example. helping her anticipate on every play- that the ball IS going to come to her- to know what her options are to she can execute smoothly- maybe that may help ?
 
Oct 31, 2010
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Grounded, thanks for pointing out that it may not be an immunity issue but rather a growth issue. That should have occurred to me since my son is already 5'0 at 9 years old. With his ADHD we have seen his pattern, when the excessive talking and can't sit still starts the grades start dropping and it happens rather quickly because he just can't focus. My mostly A student starts bringing home C's, D's, & F's and I want to make sure he has anything he needs to succeed in school. Last week he brought home a C on his spelling test when he spelled them fine to me the previous day (while he was rolling around on the floor I might add). I am thankful that you started this topic since I haven't really had anyone to talk to that's also going through this. I appreciate everyone sharing their stories as well, while you know your not alone, it can sometimes feel that way when you don't have anyone to talk to that is going through the same thing.

As for sports and the meds slowing them down, I think it is a very logical question. We also wondered the same thing, but for us we think he plays much better on his meds, he just seems to keep up with the game better instead of looking lost on the court. I wish your DD the best of luck in school and sports.
 
May 7, 2008
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Almost every 2nd grader that I had in my class, with ADD symptoms was the smartest, brightest, most intelligent child around. It did not always show up on test scores. It showed on his or her face and in the fleeting moments when they were able to get their thoughts together. But, imagine an 8yo such as one I had, that when I was saying the spelling words, like "frown." He would stand on his desk and yell "Brown clown sat down!" There was no support staff. I was at a Lutheran grade school in Springfield, IL. Good luck to all of you that are currently dealing with these health issues.
 
Aug 7, 2012
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In the past when I managed my boys rec BB team, I had the pleasure (honestly) of having a few boys on my team with some level of ADD. Each one had difficulty paying attention on the bases and it got worse when they were in the outfield but they all excelled as catchers... The constant interaction and being involved in every play did wonders.
 

Greenmonsters

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Feb 21, 2009
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In the past when I managed my boys rec BB team, I had the pleasure (honestly) of having a few boys on my team with some level of ADD. Each one had difficulty paying attention on the bases and it got worse when they were in the outfield but they all excelled as catchers... The constant interaction and being involved in every play did wonders.

Good point, Wheels, I've also seen that the exta stimulation behind the plate can keep them engaged; however, my wife is an elementary school teacher and has/had kids with varying degrees of ADD/ADHD and what works for some doesn't work for all - it really is a case by case situation. And from a parent's standpoint, I've learned that its important to be an advocate for your own/family's healthcare - you need to ask questions, become educated and informed, and above all, be comfortable before following a doctor's advice. Too many are so pressed for time during an office visit that sometimes they don't seem to hear or adequately address all of the patient's concerns.
 

redhotcoach

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May 8, 2009
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In the past when I managed my boys rec BB team, I had the pleasure (honestly) of having a few boys on my team with some level of ADD. Each one had difficulty paying attention on the bases and it got worse when they were in the outfield but they all excelled as catchers... The constant interaction and being involved in every play did wonders.

Oh ds would love to be a catcher like big sister. Of course half his life is spent watching her do it. He played 12 games this summer, all kids rotating positions and wouldn't you know it, he finally get to be catcher the last game.

Thanks for sharing your experience, made me smile and gave me a little hope.
 
May 8, 2012
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NJ
after a recent news story, i've decide to add (little a.d.d humor) to this post. The Phillies are our local MLB team, and yesterday I had to field a bunch of questions from DD about Carlos Ruiz, his Adderall, and his 25 game suspension....at 12, she has decided that MLB sees it as a performance enhancing drug...though she has a Rx, can't understand how she can use and he can't....quite the grown up discussion actually....30min discussion afterward on weather she's a cheater too, or not. Honestly....that part sucked. I think she's ok with the final answer, but it killed me to see her see herself as a cheater. I'm so hoping we've passed this
 

Greenmonsters

Wannabe Duck Boat Owner
Feb 21, 2009
6,165
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New England
after a recent news story, i've decide to add (little a.d.d humor) to this post. The Phillies are our local MLB team, and yesterday I had to field a bunch of questions from DD about Carlos Ruiz, his Adderall, and his 25 game suspension....at 12, she has decided that MLB sees it as a performance enhancing drug...though she has a Rx, can't understand how she can use and he can't....quite the grown up discussion actually....30min discussion afterward on weather she's a cheater too, or not. Honestly....that part sucked. I think she's ok with the final answer, but it killed me to see her see herself as a cheater. I'm so hoping we've passed this

Good job, dad, sounds like you handled it well. And thank you for the reminder that we parents need to set good examples and be the role models for our children rather than risk trusting that responsibility to others like Ruiz, Cabrera, Armstrong, Bonds, Clemens, McGwire etc.
 

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