Is winning worth putting up with a jerk as a coach? My daughter's rec league (at least her age group) is all but dominated by a coach who I consider a "jerk". I have seen him at games put his players (including his daughter) in tears... while they're on the field. He does it by criticizing them from the dugout. This is my DD's 2nd year at 10U, and while I still think this is an age group you need to build girls up (hustling, trying to make a play even if a throw is off, etc), he apparently sees things differently. I've got to admit he wins games (undefeated this year). Most of his team has been together for years. Why do parents put with him though? Is winning that important?
He has had a couple girls leave his team, and what I've heard is if a parent complains, he'll take it out on the girls (lack of playing time, etc).
So why do parents put up with it?
He has had a couple girls leave his team, and what I've heard is if a parent complains, he'll take it out on the girls (lack of playing time, etc).
So why do parents put up with it?