Here is the thing, if you and your dd think the coach is a bully. Nothing else really matters. Move her to a team with coaches who you are more comfortable with.
Here is the thing, if you and your dd think the coach is a bully. Nothing else really matters. Move her to a team with coaches who you are more comfortable with.
My DD went thru a similar issue a few years back, but it wasn't just her, it was everyone on the team. The HS coach's philosophy, at the least the best I could tell, was one of I will berate and force you into playing better. Maybe this works for Navy Seal Team 6, but not for HS girls. I could at least understand the negativity if the issues were laziness, attitude, etc. But clearly not the case with this group. Hard working, dedicated group where nothing was ever good enough. So, basically what happened was either the kids learned to tune him out or they moved on. We lost many good ball players because of the coach.
IMO, with this 60's mentality of 'coaching' everyone loses.
My boys played for a very strict coach and we always thought that he had favorites, too. I do understand what you are going through.
After awhile, we adapted and now, I am sorry that I wasted time worrying about the coach.
I hear ya, going through it this year except it isn't the WHOLE team, just a select 4-5 (yup DD is one of them). Believe me I don't have the goggles on. DD fld % is at .906, she plays RF and P. The CF has .790 FLD% and the LF has .800 FLD%. Both are Seniors, and have the lowest FLD% on the team. DD gets jawed at when she makes a mistake by the AC, but nothing to the others. He also really is on our C about blocking. Typically she has to block 3X as many balls as the opposing catcher, nothing is said to the pitchers about throwing so many balls in the dirt (my DD included). The DW is on me to talk to the HC, but as a coach myself I really want my DD to talk to them (She is a little timid, so is the C about approaching this subject). I could use some input on what to do
That is a great point JAD, but the HS team is filled with TB players (although all the Sr's didn't play last Summer). There isn't a player on the team that does not have TB experience.
It's a new coach, and she is coming off coaching JV2 teams for several years, the AC has been helping on Varsity for many years. Things are interesting to say the least. For an example; Out of 22 games, DD has hit in 7 of them 16 AB's total, batting .312 with 5 RBI and 4 runs. Last game she was DP'd for a player with over twice the AB's batting .037. And went 0-3. IDK, just a few games left.
Anyhoo JAD believe me I will use that to both the DD and our C... hopefully it will help them.