- Feb 3, 2011
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This language does not bother me, but you and I are different. So, I'd most likely counsel my DD differently than you would in this situation. At some point, my guess is that you'll find it healthier to separate your feelings from your daughter's. I understand that you're entitled to feel whatever you want, but it's also my belief that, as you describe him, this coach does not have the sort of style that suits YOU. On that count, you - as a parent - have every right to establish certain standards or feelings about how your daughter should be treated (within reason) and if a coach or program doesn't offer that, you should feel obliged to move on.Her coach uses the term "unacceptable" with her and the other girls quite liberally and I am finding that it really upsets both me and my daughter.
I am a firm believer in helping your player to find the right fit, so as you spend more time at tournaments this summer, don't be afraid to strike up conversations with parents on prospective teams. I don't know whether you've already done this, but you may be surprised to find out how honest people are willing to be about their situations, good, bad, or otherwise. Good luck!