A smoker, it doesn't matter what kind, is against everyone's policies - or should be. You have no other option, but to cut her. What she is smoking is a problem at 14, but that is beside the point.
So, then, we have to ask - how will you know if she is smoking currently or if this was a stupid mistake that she made one time? In the early 70s almost all of my classmates smoked mj. They started at 16. All were National Honor Society members. They were my friends, but I wanted to become a teacher and I didn't smoke. It just didn't interest me.
I am more concerned about a group of girls that are trying to intimidate your DD. I would be in the principal's office about that.
So, then, we have to ask - how will you know if she is smoking currently or if this was a stupid mistake that she made one time? In the early 70s almost all of my classmates smoked mj. They started at 16. All were National Honor Society members. They were my friends, but I wanted to become a teacher and I didn't smoke. It just didn't interest me.
I am more concerned about a group of girls that are trying to intimidate your DD. I would be in the principal's office about that.