It is def not for everyone. DW did not love softball near as much as me, so there was some strain there. DD just graduated high school and for her softball is over. I am glad to have the summer free, but will miss watching her play.
My youngest DD has been out of TB for about 4 years now, I still miss the time with her on the car rides. The older she got, the less we talked about softball in the car and just hung out. I even miss those really stinky cleats, having to roll the windows down sometimes
It all goes too quickly, so enjoy the time while you can.