Update. The band director just called back and dd is off the hook for the concert. Did I mention it's tough to win an argument with my wife? After 15 years together I have learned to be happy if I can at least get her to quit beating a dead horse. I gave up winning (arguments) years ago.
Of course the band director had to say he hopes we lose!
I have 3 girls that are Mormon, no way would they be at anything on Sunday.
I am glad that the band director came to his senses. I bet he was kidding about the loss.
...and really? Softball isn't a vice?