Greenmonsters
Wannabe Duck Boat Owner
The biggest issue I see is too many voices on how to do things, from coaches (plural) to other parents to the kids' own parents to bystanders (yes!).
The kids get bombarded with changes to make and become self-conscious.
I would say make sure you and at least the team and private coaches are on the same wavelength on what you are teaching and practicing. And stick to that one thing at a time, no matter all the other input.
As a female adult, it happens to me when I play both softball and golf, and I know more about both than all the adults around me put together.
SB - Although your're probably correct, it's dangerous to make an assumption like this regarding softball, life, or just about any subject. Besides stories of the olden days and creaking joints, age begets the wisdom to realize that the more you know, the more you realize that you don't know! This stage unfortunately is preceded by the 'I know it all stage', which can be career limiting, regardless of career!
As my joints will attest, been there and done that!