Lets look at some of the issues you spoke of.
Girls running around in sports bras- While I do not agree with the behavior, it is no different than a female soccer player taking off her jersey and espn replaying it over and over.
Parents on the bus- Not a fan, but it sounds like several parents on your team are. Probably have trouble finding support at your own high school on this issue.
T-Shirts with profanity assumptions- Again, I wouldn't do it, but if the school and the coach don't have issue with it, I would let it slide. Sounds like they didn't force any players to wear something they didn't agree with.
I am not saying that I would like my DD playing for this school. Perhaps you should look into all of your options. Schools usually support the coach unless you can show gross misconduct. If you feel this is the case, you need to get as much support as you can. Present a united front to the school and speak rationally, not emotionally. Might be better to just let your DD go run track and stick to TB.
Girls running around in sports bras- While I do not agree with the behavior, it is no different than a female soccer player taking off her jersey and espn replaying it over and over.
Parents on the bus- Not a fan, but it sounds like several parents on your team are. Probably have trouble finding support at your own high school on this issue.
T-Shirts with profanity assumptions- Again, I wouldn't do it, but if the school and the coach don't have issue with it, I would let it slide. Sounds like they didn't force any players to wear something they didn't agree with.
I am not saying that I would like my DD playing for this school. Perhaps you should look into all of your options. Schools usually support the coach unless you can show gross misconduct. If you feel this is the case, you need to get as much support as you can. Present a united front to the school and speak rationally, not emotionally. Might be better to just let your DD go run track and stick to TB.