When you say this, what is she doing exactly to make someone feel accountable?
For instance the other day the coach told them to go and hit in the cage before the on the field warm ups began. Once they arrived at the cage some hit some didn't and choose to goof off instead. Once the game started the strike outs and poor at bats started to rack up. The coach gives the team a talking to about what was going on and left them to discuss it among themselves. DD brings up how the pregame warm up weren't very good and that we as a team need to do a better job of preparing for the game. One girl took that as an attack I guess saying how do you know what is best for me and on & on. Finally DD told her look I do not care what you do or don't do I was just simply making a suggestion, so next time we can't buy a hit we should ask ourselves if we were truly ready or not. BTW the young lady mad about her comments hasn't had an at bat this year.