Unfortunately, i think its part of the game whether it's intentional or not.
Besides how fast is that 10yr old throwing any way?
A college coach just hit my dd in the batting cage yesterday. She's wearing her bruise proudly!
Where will it end if kids werent allowed to get hit by balls!?!?
Accidental, part of the game and expected. Not the same as on purpose
10 year olds can throw 45-50. Do you want to take one of those from 35 feet? Also the girls getting hit are only 10 as well, so not nearly as much muscle between ball and bone as there is at 18.
My dd just finished her sophomore year of college, started pitching at 9. She plunked a ton of batters over the year, sent at least one batter and one ump to get xrays. I asked her recently how many she hit on purpose and she said zero. She pitched inside when needed but never aimed at a batter. I don't see the need for it.
I can understand if a player is endangering your teammates and the pitcher decides to give that player a bit of her own medicine, but I don't like it.