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Quincy - not sure if you're in rec or travel, but I am guessing a rec league tourney? I have had 3 kids play SB, at all levels or rec and travel (and soon college!). The rec tourneys were sometimes pretty rowdy - people acted like their place in the softball coaching or parenting hall of fame was on the line, or their multimillion dollar coaching or parenting contract depended upon how lour and obnoxious they could be. On the other hand, I met lots of good people who are still friends now.
TB is like that too, but to a lesser degree. I have met many, many, great people in TB, and a few duds. I avoid the duds and hang out with the friends, just like in real life. My DD has made some great friends as well.
I would certainly not give up because of an experience like that. It happens, but it's a great sport. You will come across fools who lose their minds at times, but that doesn't change how you act. I had a coach in rec league want to fight me at home plate, parents offer to meet me after games in the parking lot when I was umpiring, etc. I only remember that once in TB, and the guy apologized after the game.
This is definitely a get out of what you put into it endeavor.
3's Dad - as you get older, they get less vocal because they talk behind your back more.
TB is like that too, but to a lesser degree. I have met many, many, great people in TB, and a few duds. I avoid the duds and hang out with the friends, just like in real life. My DD has made some great friends as well.
I would certainly not give up because of an experience like that. It happens, but it's a great sport. You will come across fools who lose their minds at times, but that doesn't change how you act. I had a coach in rec league want to fight me at home plate, parents offer to meet me after games in the parking lot when I was umpiring, etc. I only remember that once in TB, and the guy apologized after the game.
This is definitely a get out of what you put into it endeavor.
3's Dad - as you get older, they get less vocal because they talk behind your back more.