It seems to me that ER at this point is a reaction not an action. In other words, it is something that happens not something you do.
Forcing ER to happen would require activating or tightening muscles while allowing it to happen (then stopping it appropriately or fusing it) would be a response from loose muscle required to whip or throw effectively.
Feel like you're using the hands, and you won't have to worry about the elbows.