Quick update. Spoke to my wife this morning and she gave me her unique perspective. First off she used my own words against and reminded me I am fond of quoting Star Trek, "...the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few. Or the one.". Basically she called me on the table and reminded I can't have it both ways. Then she pointedly reminded me that the "Sins of the Father" is often used against me. My wife is the vice principle at our local high school and one of her primary duties is student discipline. She has been in that job for over 15 years and many of the people in the league who have a problem with me really have a problem with my wife. Either she has disciplined their kids or in some more recent cases she actually disciplined the parents. She also apparently knows the family in question well and told me he was banned from the HS football field during practices for behavior issues related to his older son. Honestly I didn't know you could be banned. I am going to conduct tryouts and if she makes the top 6 I have no choice but to take her. I will then evaluate the remaining 6 and choose the players that give me the best chance of winning this season. I will make my decision after I see who comes out and what talent I get to choose from. Thank you all for your input.