I was scouting for the 14U rec all star team when in the 2nd inning I saw two coaches come about as close to blows as I have ever witnessed. The batter hit a solid shot to the right center field gap. The first baseman moved to cover the bag even though there was no way a play was going to be made at first. The runner seeing the ball hit the gap never broke stride and turned to go to second. Big collision as the runner turned the corner (she collided with first baseman after touching the bag). Laid out the first baseman completely. Ump calls defensive obstruction and awards the runner 3rd. The defensive coach goes ballistic and charges the 3rd base coach accusing his runner of taking a cheap shot and not teaching his players proper safety. 3rd base coach did not react well and accused the defensive coach of not teaching his players how to play proper defense. Fortunately the ump intervened and he is a very big guy (6'5+ and 300 pounds) and was able to separate them before a blow was thrown. Kicked both out of the game.
Now comes the difficult decision I have to make. The defensive coach that initiated the confrontation has a talented DD. Our league all star selection rules have the top 6 selected by the coaches and the next 6 - 9 selected by the manager (me). This particular player will not be in the top 6 but would likely be on my list of the next 6 that I plan on selecting. Feedback I have received from other coaches and parents is this particular dad has a recurring problem with controlling his temper. I am tempted to tell him that one outburst and he will be removed from the current tournament. Second outburst and he will be banned from the rest of the tournaments. Anyone have experience with this type of scenario?
Now comes the difficult decision I have to make. The defensive coach that initiated the confrontation has a talented DD. Our league all star selection rules have the top 6 selected by the coaches and the next 6 - 9 selected by the manager (me). This particular player will not be in the top 6 but would likely be on my list of the next 6 that I plan on selecting. Feedback I have received from other coaches and parents is this particular dad has a recurring problem with controlling his temper. I am tempted to tell him that one outburst and he will be removed from the current tournament. Second outburst and he will be banned from the rest of the tournaments. Anyone have experience with this type of scenario?