I have seen her hit, don't blame you.I bought a full set of gear while DD was a Pitcher because a ball in the dirt chipped my shin bone so I know your pain well. When she became a catcher second year of 14U, she was actually big/tall enough to inherit my gear.
I haven't thrown her front toss without a screen since she was 9 and took out a former MLB player that was front tossing to her in coach pitch during an All-Star game. After that, after every pitch to her, he'd run back and behind the 1st baseman after releasing the pitch. It was quite comical to see this big burly guy run and hide behind a 9 year old girl after every pitch.