Well, what would you say if the family said "well coach, we like your team, but we want to check out other teams before we accept". Would you be ok with that, or would you be somewhat annoyed that you offered a spot and they didn't grab it (which some coaches definitely would be). Would you take that player a week later if they came back to you because either they didn't make another team or maybe they did like your team the most after looking around?