That might be the longest sentence in the history of the internet.Hello first time posting new to the site. This topic is a neverending thing. I am an assistant coach of my dd's team my buddy is the head coach he also has a daughter on the team we are a first 14u this season coming from 2 yrs of 12u. Our first year of 12 u we had a different head coach and without a doubt he was daddy ball all the way his daughter pitched played wherever she wanted if she got bored with where she was just go right out to another position play forgot to mention she was not very good he never said anything she would walk run after run in when pitching if we were losing which we took some lumps as a first yr 12u all our girls first time ever playing travel he would leave the dugout and go sit with his family that season we went 10-22-2 longest summer of my life so he left the team with her told us nothing about what was gonna happen with the team so myself and my buddy took the team over same girls 2 aged out and him and his daughter gone so we picked up 3 new girls to add to our core group we went 30-17 in our second year of 12 u and if anything if you have a dd on the team you coach those girls need to shine every inning on defense and every time at bat to show that they deserve the spot they have and wasnt just handed to them my dd plays ss bats 3rd and my buddy dd plays 2b bats 2nd they get on base they drive runs in and they both know they are under a microscope because we are coaches some parents even say to us that we are way harder on our 2 than the other girls we are because I dont ever want to hear that we play favorites to our dd's and if another girl comes in and is hands down better than ours our daughters will be finding a new position to play we all have fun they play their hearts out for us every inning of every game and win or lose if you left it all out on the field you have nothing to be ashamed of if you lose you walk off the field with your head held high and know that you got beat by a better team that day