- Nov 29, 2009
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First off I said "I(I) wouldn't consider that a change" nor would 99.9% of all, not just on this message board. No intentions of getting everyone on here to agree. But you are stuck in the illusion that 10u is the apex of softball. NEWS FLASH, it's not. 10u A, your world? Been there, done that just like many before me. One day you'll look back and say "I was little overboard at 10u, I really don't remember seeing many college coaches at our games". As far as TB/Rec debate, you can go anywhere in the country and find teams that call themselves Gold, A, Elite, or whatever adjective you want and come to find out they are no better than a "Rec" ball team. Don't get me wrong there are different levels of Rec ball. The ones that are just in for the kids to the ones that are actually really good, just don't travel. As far as my kid, she has placed top 10 at 18u Premier, played ASA Gold,.... she will pitching DI on the West Coast, that's all I'll say about her level of play. I've been where you are. Thinking our pitching coach's word was the gospel and finding it wasn't. Not saying Hal isn't a good coach. I have been to countless clinics and lessons, my kids, others on the team, some just to watch other instructors. I will say this, I listen to what everyone has to say and take what I like from each to find what's best for my kid. Do I think Hal make some good points, yes. But do I agree with all of them, no. And I wouldn't expect everyone to agree with my point of view(regardless of how right I am) that was a joke, in case you didn't realize. I've taken the road of listening and regurgitating, it doesn't work. Eventually will have to answer question that you can't because all of your info is from a book, not trial and error, not going out and verifying what you are being taught, not listening to advice and decifering what is best for your kid. If you can only listen to one perspective then you will have only one opinion. I question everything! Not because I don't believe something but because I want to know the one teaching has a clue.
My lack of a 10u DD? They don't stay that age forever.
Spoken like a parent whose been through the hard part of the mill. JO Softball.
The fun part comes in college when you sit back and watch. Enjoy every minute of it. The good, the bad and the ugly. Before you know it, it's over. You're sitting in the stands watching her throw the last pitch of her college career trying to hold back the tears after the completion of what feels like a life long journey.
Today my daughter ran into the mother of a girl we had on one of our 10U teams 8 years ago. The mom tells her the girl is looking into Ivy League schools. She wants to be a physicist. To see this girl at 10 years old you would never think it in a million years.