So, what you are saying is that if a hot young woman comes along I should leave my wife and kids to have fun????? I can just explain to them how she is young and we have so much fun and move on.So, what you are saying is that once you have a job and another one like you like more comes up you wouldn't take it??? It is early in the whole process of this thing, if you and your DD like the other team better go. Explain what happened to this team and move on. It's not you you are leaving them high and dry 2 weeks before the state tournament. This is the nature of the beast.
I know that is a stretch as is the job comment. Unless there is a contract, which legally you have to honor(unless you are in the NFL)changing jobs is different.
Whether it is the nature of the beast or not when you make a committment to a team(especially one that welcomed you in, when others wouldn't) it is just that a committment. I want my kids to do what they say they are gonna do, because it is the right thing to do. Regardless of what everyone else is doing.