- May 25, 2010
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I'm not even trying to play the devil's advocate here, but what risk are we - as responsible adults - taking if we don't make every reasonable effort to keep this kid involved in team sports?
Of course, there has to be a breaking point and in general, hitting a coach or player is that point, but maybe this girl needs a structured, team environment in addition to therapy and/or medication.
I wouldn't suggest the clinical-only route to helping this child. Although not a guarantee, success in athletics can have a potent therapeutic value in its own right. Combine that with the right clinical support and this girl could be well on her way to avoiding bigger trouble as she gets older.
Put her out to pasture now, however, and you risk losing her forever. That doesn't mean that you or any one of us would be the right coach - or therapist - for her at this time, but when a child presents with a serious problem, I think most of us have the capacity to do better than to simply shut our doors and hope they'll go away.
Of course, there has to be a breaking point and in general, hitting a coach or player is that point, but maybe this girl needs a structured, team environment in addition to therapy and/or medication.
I wouldn't suggest the clinical-only route to helping this child. Although not a guarantee, success in athletics can have a potent therapeutic value in its own right. Combine that with the right clinical support and this girl could be well on her way to avoiding bigger trouble as she gets older.
Put her out to pasture now, however, and you risk losing her forever. That doesn't mean that you or any one of us would be the right coach - or therapist - for her at this time, but when a child presents with a serious problem, I think most of us have the capacity to do better than to simply shut our doors and hope they'll go away.