Our once-promising 12-U team is struggling right now, clearly frustrated. Our defensive lapses have increased, our hitting has slumped and we coaches are at a loss. We spend lots of time teaching the finer parts of the game but come game-time, we seem to be fragile emotionally.
These emotions are carrying over into the dugout, with girls snipping at each other, whispering to each other about other players, etc. A couple of times we've had girls shoot off at the mouth while the game is going on. It reminds me so much of office politics, but at a younger age.
Our coaching staff is all male but as dads we understand young women at this age are emotionally-charged. We've tried heart-to-hearts, various "team" motivational ploys, etc. However, we just aren't making progress and I fear it could get nasty and really do serious damage to a team for which we have such high hopes.
I would like to hear from other coaches or parents who have gone through similar circumstances and how it was addressed and what the final outcome was. We cannot reach our potential as a team until we solve these problems.
Thanks!
These emotions are carrying over into the dugout, with girls snipping at each other, whispering to each other about other players, etc. A couple of times we've had girls shoot off at the mouth while the game is going on. It reminds me so much of office politics, but at a younger age.
Our coaching staff is all male but as dads we understand young women at this age are emotionally-charged. We've tried heart-to-hearts, various "team" motivational ploys, etc. However, we just aren't making progress and I fear it could get nasty and really do serious damage to a team for which we have such high hopes.
I would like to hear from other coaches or parents who have gone through similar circumstances and how it was addressed and what the final outcome was. We cannot reach our potential as a team until we solve these problems.
Thanks!