Phathead -
Good post, but one suggestion: Please break up your post with paragraphs. It's hard (even painful) to read when it's one giant block like that.
OK, as to your dilemma, I get your frustration. But my issue is that your in-game coaching teaches your daughter to disrespect the coach. Your coach has a rule against coaching. You break that rule. Your daughter sees that. It's not healthy.
So my suggestion is that you talk with the coach and make your case. If the coach is OK with you having a brief chat after each inning, then OK. But if not, I'd recommend finding another team, one whose head coach can help your daughter pitch. When I first coached, I had a pitcher who did well when her dad called her pitches. I let him in the dugout to do it. He was calm, unemotional, a very good coach for her. He taught me stuff. So I'm not against dads coaching their daughters on certain travel teams. I'm just against dads defying the coach. Need to find a coach that you can work with, or that you respect, IMO.
Good post, but one suggestion: Please break up your post with paragraphs. It's hard (even painful) to read when it's one giant block like that.
OK, as to your dilemma, I get your frustration. But my issue is that your in-game coaching teaches your daughter to disrespect the coach. Your coach has a rule against coaching. You break that rule. Your daughter sees that. It's not healthy.
So my suggestion is that you talk with the coach and make your case. If the coach is OK with you having a brief chat after each inning, then OK. But if not, I'd recommend finding another team, one whose head coach can help your daughter pitch. When I first coached, I had a pitcher who did well when her dad called her pitches. I let him in the dugout to do it. He was calm, unemotional, a very good coach for her. He taught me stuff. So I'm not against dads coaching their daughters on certain travel teams. I'm just against dads defying the coach. Need to find a coach that you can work with, or that you respect, IMO.