Down in the pitching thread some respected PC coaches really like it when a parent is there learning with player so they can help between lessons at home. Well of course the same parent is going to help/correct their DD at tourney or game if they see a bad habit or other flaw rearing it's ugly head. Jump down to the college area and a multi page thread on how it looks bad on the player if they seek advice from their parents and some coaches just plain forbid a player to have contact with a parent during a game, not all but some. The same would apply to hitting also the way I see it. Like the title says us parents can find ourselves in a pickle. PC or Hitting Coach telling us to work on X and remind her about Y. Now I'm not talking about the crazy yelling between and during every pitch, parent, but after a walk or between at bats we remind them "Hey remember to Y" just like the paid instructor told us to. In return we take the chance of either us or DD catching the wrath of the head coach. My take is until they are in college or the PC and the Hitting Coach are in the dugout if DD is struggling I will chance it and help her if I can. Of course the other ideal situation is the coaches in the dugout are on the same page as the private instructor.
The reason I bring this up is I'm the constant in my DD journey in SB, team changes in TB, high school coaching changes etc. I dare say it is rare that little Suzy joins TB org xyz at 8u and stays thru 18u and the high school coaches collaborate with the org. I do my best to sort thru the info here and pass it on to my DD at home or by a paid instructor. I have read several threads blasting parents as wanna be coaches when in reality Head Coaches benefit from parents a lot, and players benefit from good coaching a lot.
Sorry for the ramble/rant this just came to mind as I was sitting here reading and watching the LLWS.
The reason I bring this up is I'm the constant in my DD journey in SB, team changes in TB, high school coaching changes etc. I dare say it is rare that little Suzy joins TB org xyz at 8u and stays thru 18u and the high school coaches collaborate with the org. I do my best to sort thru the info here and pass it on to my DD at home or by a paid instructor. I have read several threads blasting parents as wanna be coaches when in reality Head Coaches benefit from parents a lot, and players benefit from good coaching a lot.
Sorry for the ramble/rant this just came to mind as I was sitting here reading and watching the LLWS.