I agree that this should be about what makes her happy. $300 is extreme for a rec league, and keep in mind that rec leagues have rec coaches... most rec coaches are just parents trying their best but dont have the knowledge or experience to help your dd to the next level. If she is "all about ball" then you should look into TB, because rec is about fun and TB is about becoming the best you can, then dominating your high school team, and showcase tourneys to get colleges to notice you and if all the stars align, maybe even some offers.