People like to believe that sex abuse is simple. It makes people feel comfortable. In truth, only the "grab and rape" cases are simple.
Here is a real life example I had to deal with on a weekly basis:
Daddy makes 100K per year. He has abused his 12YOA DD for a year. He admits it. Now what?
The easy answer is "throw Daddy in jail!" Everyone loves that answer...you can talk about it at the water cooler, slap each other on the back and say, "Yes, that is justice." There is a nice headline, and everyone forgets about it. Unfortunately, DD and Mommy still have to eat.
By putting Daddy into jail, there is no one around to support DD or Mommy. Mommy, in 90% of the cases, doesn't have a job and has no work skills. So, by putting Daddy into jail, Mommy and DD end up on welfare, and DD ends up having even more problems.
If you try to keep Daddy working in order to support DD and Mommy, some idiots will complain that you are "soft on crime".
These are very, very difficult cases. Nothing is ever easy--that is why I'm so suspicious of the original story. Everything is too simple.
Here is a real life example I had to deal with on a weekly basis:
Daddy makes 100K per year. He has abused his 12YOA DD for a year. He admits it. Now what?
The easy answer is "throw Daddy in jail!" Everyone loves that answer...you can talk about it at the water cooler, slap each other on the back and say, "Yes, that is justice." There is a nice headline, and everyone forgets about it. Unfortunately, DD and Mommy still have to eat.
By putting Daddy into jail, there is no one around to support DD or Mommy. Mommy, in 90% of the cases, doesn't have a job and has no work skills. So, by putting Daddy into jail, Mommy and DD end up on welfare, and DD ends up having even more problems.
If you try to keep Daddy working in order to support DD and Mommy, some idiots will complain that you are "soft on crime".
These are very, very difficult cases. Nothing is ever easy--that is why I'm so suspicious of the original story. Everything is too simple.