at my indoor practice a girl on the high school team said the coaches never let the second baseman throw to 3rd. is this a general thing? or is it just the high school coaches preference? And why couldn't they throw to third?
We use the term "Where the ball takes you", so in the situation you describe, if the 2nd baseman is in the proceess of fielding the ball and it "take them" towards 3rd then the play would or could be to 3rd. If the ball "take you" towards 1st thern the play would be to 1st. This works for everyone on the field.
To me its all about the odds of getting outs. To say 2nd never throws to 3rd, seems closed minded. Never say never.