- May 12, 2013
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I am at a crossroad with my 14u TB team. We have now played two tournaments. The last one this past weekend went awful. First off, Friday nights games were rained out. They decided to cut one of the pool games, leaving one pool game and then dbl elim brackets. We lost pool game 10-2 had our chances to score and did not. Then the wheels came off. We lost 15-0 and then 12-0 to a team we beat in the previous tournament.
After last game I could tell the girls were ready to leave and were disgusted. I had one parent say they needed to talk and then another one talked to me but I could tell she was upset.
I told the parents before we started that we were going to take our lumps, goal was to teach fundamentals and get experience playing. I don't think they thought it would be this bad. The kicker here is I have girls with no enthusiasm, work ethic or desire to even play. The parents wanted more practices and I did that, I still have girls missing practice. I had one girl miss this past tournament because she had a cheerleading camp. I am not a drill sergeant coach, but it seems they need the fear of God before they do anything.
I did not have the parents sign a contract of what is expected and now I realize that is my fault. As I am typing this, I no longer have the desire to coach this team. My wife has heard some of the parents talking very negative about me and other girls on the team. This is a ticking time bomb. How do I handle this? I learned from dad at a very young age to never be quitter. I have never quit before, but I am really considering it now...
After last game I could tell the girls were ready to leave and were disgusted. I had one parent say they needed to talk and then another one talked to me but I could tell she was upset.
I told the parents before we started that we were going to take our lumps, goal was to teach fundamentals and get experience playing. I don't think they thought it would be this bad. The kicker here is I have girls with no enthusiasm, work ethic or desire to even play. The parents wanted more practices and I did that, I still have girls missing practice. I had one girl miss this past tournament because she had a cheerleading camp. I am not a drill sergeant coach, but it seems they need the fear of God before they do anything.
I did not have the parents sign a contract of what is expected and now I realize that is my fault. As I am typing this, I no longer have the desire to coach this team. My wife has heard some of the parents talking very negative about me and other girls on the team. This is a ticking time bomb. How do I handle this? I learned from dad at a very young age to never be quitter. I have never quit before, but I am really considering it now...