Im looking for some advice. My DD is a junior in high school and a very good player. She's won all kinds of accolades over the years for her play. She wants to play in college and we've been visiting schools since her freshman year. She even has some well-known smaller colleges chasing her. Great kid. Good attitude. Competitive. Great grasp of the game. She's a catcher and told to us to be one of the best blocking catcher people have seen for a long time in our area.
But, she doesn't want to play for her HS because of the coach. The coach is young and on a power trip. She employs tactics like demeaning the kids, insulting them, belittling them. Talent literally walks away every year from the program because kids do not want to play for her. They are tired of the disrespect and verbal abuse. The kids don't stop playing the sport, they just stop playing for this particular coach. And it appears my DD is going to be one of them.
This coach has been particularly difficult with my DD. my DD has been getting catching lessons since 12u from a coach that spent 4 years catching in college at the D2 level. The catching coach has been amazing with what she has taught my DD and I discovered by helping at these lessons what a real catcher has to do behind that plate. I am amazed at all the things she has to process and decide on in a matter of seconds.
When my DD started at the high school, the first thing this coach wanted to do was change all of her catching mechanics without even having any kind of dialog of what, why, or how. It started with that and has progressively gotten worse. Oh yeah, and the HS coach even admitted to not knowing much about the catching position. We resisted to the point where a meeting was necessary but since then it has been a constant disrespect and verbal abuse.
So now, she wants to develop her own training program with some private instruction to fill in for the high school season. She still plays TB and that team will be practicing all winter.
I'm torn to be honest. I'd like to she her play for her school but the coach really is a bad coach. HS ball around here doesn't mean a whole bunch, TB is definitely king. I don't know, looking for some wisdom...
But, she doesn't want to play for her HS because of the coach. The coach is young and on a power trip. She employs tactics like demeaning the kids, insulting them, belittling them. Talent literally walks away every year from the program because kids do not want to play for her. They are tired of the disrespect and verbal abuse. The kids don't stop playing the sport, they just stop playing for this particular coach. And it appears my DD is going to be one of them.
This coach has been particularly difficult with my DD. my DD has been getting catching lessons since 12u from a coach that spent 4 years catching in college at the D2 level. The catching coach has been amazing with what she has taught my DD and I discovered by helping at these lessons what a real catcher has to do behind that plate. I am amazed at all the things she has to process and decide on in a matter of seconds.
When my DD started at the high school, the first thing this coach wanted to do was change all of her catching mechanics without even having any kind of dialog of what, why, or how. It started with that and has progressively gotten worse. Oh yeah, and the HS coach even admitted to not knowing much about the catching position. We resisted to the point where a meeting was necessary but since then it has been a constant disrespect and verbal abuse.
So now, she wants to develop her own training program with some private instruction to fill in for the high school season. She still plays TB and that team will be practicing all winter.
I'm torn to be honest. I'd like to she her play for her school but the coach really is a bad coach. HS ball around here doesn't mean a whole bunch, TB is definitely king. I don't know, looking for some wisdom...