Oh, I wasn't mistaken. At age 25, Burfict still gets the "idiot kid" pass. His selfish style of play on that final drive hurt his team, but it was Jones' behavior during the ensuing on-field gathering that was the kill shot. In the case of Vontaze Burfict, he's got a long-standing reputation for hitting HARD, and he's definitely been guilty of dirty play during his career, but he doesn't have nearly the volume of off-field baggage that Jones does, baggage that more than justifies the amount of scrutiny he receives.
Jones feels that he was justified in going after the Steeler coach, Joey Porter, because Porter "should not have been out there". Well, it's Jones' job to self-regulate, but he does not get paid to officiate the game. If he stays in his lane and gets himself (and Burfict, perhaps) away from the officials so that they can discuss whatever they need to, Pittsburgh is forced to make a 50-yarder instead of that virtual chip shot.
I don't disagree with your assessment of Jones' actions, but it seems to me that the tirade ought to be directed at the head-hunting Burfict. Without that cheap shot (not his first, not even his first this season), Porter's not on the field and Jones isn't in a position to add to the idiocy.
I still haven't seen video of what Jones did other than wave his arms a lot. And I'm still wondering why the Steeler bench wasn't flagged.