16u is showcase age. During showcase everyone plays and that is why nobody cares what the score is. Wait until you DD verbals and she sits all the time to let the uncommitted girls show their stuff. Tourneys are different and I always told my kids: "when it's your turn to sit it's your turn to sit": "Do you think you are too good to sit?" I hope your DD is not taking your attitude about sitting out one whole inning.