I'm glad to hear you're planning to stay. Daddyball coaches are everywhere. We can choose to accept it by finding ways to adapt and overcome, or we can leave.... I'd suggest being candid and open with him, privately of course. Most coaches like to hear constructive input. Give details of what girl really excelled at what at the last practice or game. (stay positive) I'd also recommend studying high level mechanics of hitting, pitching, catching, and fielding. Use this newly acquired information of skills to further strengthen the strong players and to build the lesser experienced girls. Keep practices focused on competition. Every drill is designed to perfect the mechanic and to challenge each other....the "lesser" girls will be forced to step up her game quickly.... You volunteered to assist him in coaching... I'm sure that shouldn't mean being a simple minion. Take some initiative, and build these kids up!Very good point and I had an idea coming in what he was like, but I guess I assumed there is no way he sees this girl as anything other than a LF.
I never said I was quitting, I simply asked for ways to handle it. Are you implying that quitting is my only option? His decision DOES NOT affect my dd unless she makes a throw to first and his daughter drops it, which I do not think is a bad thing for my dd to get used to dealing with, so I do not think quitting is even an option simply because we started, we will finish.